“Preparing your child for preschool”
A Gentle Guide for a Confident Start😊
Starting preschool or kindergarten is a big milestone—not just for children, but for parents too. It marks the beginning of a new chapter filled with learning, friendships, and personal growth. At Nest & Kin, we understand how emotional and exciting this transition can be. Whether your child is entering a classroom for the first time or graduating from nanny care to school life, here are some thoughtful, child-centered strategies to help you prepare them for a smooth and successful start.
1. Talk About What to Expect🗣️
Preschool and kindergarten are full of new routines, faces, and experiences. Talking about what school is like helps demystify the unknown.
Tip: Read age-appropriate books about starting school, role-play a “school day,” or take a virtual tour of the classroom if available.
Say: “You’ll have a cubby for your things, playtime with other kids, and a kind teacher who will help you learn new things.”
2. Practice Separation Gently🫂
For children used to being with a nanny or at home, separating from caregivers can be challenging. Gradually introducing time away helps build confidence.
Try: Short playdates, story times, or structured classes without you present. Start with small steps and build up.
Reassure: “I’ll always come back for you after school. Your teacher will take care of you until then.”
3. Build Independence Skills🐥
Preschoolers thrive when they feel capable. Practice simple self-help skills in advance so your child feels confident navigating the day.
Focus on:
Putting on shoes and jackets
Using the toilet independently
Washing hands properly
Opening lunch containers or snack bags
Encourage: “Let’s practice zipping your backpack together!”
4. Establish a Consistent Routine🌈
A steady routine helps children feel safe and understand what to expect each day. Begin your school-time routine a few weeks before the big day.
Include:
Set wake-up and bedtime hours
Morning routines (breakfast, dressing, brushing teeth)
Wind-down routines at night
5. Foster Social and Emotional Readiness🆘
School is not just about academics—it's also about navigating relationships and expressing feelings appropriately.
Support them by:
Naming emotions (“You look frustrated. Do you need help?”)
Practicing turn-taking, sharing, and using polite words
Modeling conflict resolution
Bonus Tip: Arrange playdates to help your child become comfortable with peers.
6. Stay Positive and Relaxed🧘🏽
Children pick up on adult emotions. Your calm confidence will reassure them that school is a fun, safe place.
Avoid overselling or overexplaining. Keep your language enthusiastic but simple.
Say: “You’re going to have fun, learn, and meet new friends!”
7. Communicate With Teachers and Caregivers📩
Stay in touch with your child’s teacher and be open about their personality, needs, and any concerns. If your child has been working with a nanny or caregiver, they can often offer valuable insights and continuity of care during this transition.
Final Thoughts
Starting preschool or kindergarten is a significant step, and it's completely normal for both parents and children to feel a mix of excitement and nerves. The key is to prepare early, communicate openly, and create routines that foster confidence and independence.
Remember: every child adjusts in their own time. What matters most is that they feel supported and understood along the way.
At Nest & Kin, we’ve worked with countless families through this very transition. Whether it's building school-readiness skills, supporting routines, or simply being an extra reassuring presence, our caregivers are here to help your child—and you—feel ready for what’s next.
If you're looking for gentle support during this season of change, we’re always just a conversation away.
