🚽 Potty Training Without Stress: Gentle Tips That Really Work
Potty training is one of those parenting milestones that can feel both exciting and overwhelming. You’re proud your little one is growing up — but the process itself? It can get a little messy (literally and emotionally!).
Every child learns in their own time, and that’s perfectly normal. At Nest & Kin, our nannies and maternity nurses have supported countless families through this stage, and one thing is always true: patience, consistency, and calm encouragement make all the difference.
Here are our favourite gentle, real-world tips to help you and your child through the potty training journey.
1️⃣ Look for signs of readiness
There’s no set age to begin — some children show interest at 18 months, while others might not be ready until closer to 3 years. What matters most is watching for the signs:
Your child stays dry for longer stretches (about two hours).
They start to notice when they’ve gone or tell you afterwards.
They show curiosity about the toilet or want to copy you.
They can pull pants up and down on their own.
If several of these are true, you’re ready to start slowly. If not, give it more time. Starting too early can lead to frustration for both of you.
2️⃣ Create a relaxed introduction
Place the potty somewhere your child feels comfortable — maybe in the bathroom or even near their play area at first. Let them explore it, sit on it with clothes on, or “practice” with a favourite toy.
Avoid pressure or deadlines. Instead, make it part of daily life — a quick sit after meals, before bath time, or before going out. Small, predictable routines work best.
3️⃣ Use simple, positive language
Talk about what’s happening in calm, natural terms. Avoid words that sound negative or dirty.
You can say things like:
“Your body is learning to use the potty — that’s so clever!”
Or read simple potty-themed picture books together (there are many lovely ones). It helps normalise the process and keeps it fun.
4️⃣ Celebrate every success
Every little win deserves encouragement — sitting on the potty, trying, or even letting you know they need to go.
Cheer them on! Applause, stickers, or a proud smile all help your child feel capable and confident.
Avoid punishments or disappointment — even when there are accidents. Mistakes are part of learning, not failure.
5️⃣ Stay calm through setbacks
Regression is normal — especially during big changes like starting nursery, welcoming a new sibling, or family travel.
If that happens, stay calm, go back a step, and keep things positive. Consistency and empathy go a long way.
Remember, children respond to your energy — if you stay relaxed, they will too.
6️⃣ Teamwork with your nanny or caregiver
If your child spends time with a nanny, make sure everyone follows the same potty routine.
Use the same words and schedule.
Share what works best (songs, cues, routines).
Celebrate progress together.
At Nest & Kin, our nannies are trained to support families through milestones like potty training with patience and consistency. We know that when parents and caregivers work in harmony, children feel secure — and learn faster.
💛 Final Thoughts
Potty training isn’t a test of parenting skills — it’s a learning process for both you and your child. Some days will feel easy, others not so much, but that’s part of the journey.
Trust your instincts, keep your sense of humour, and remember that every child gets there in their own time.
At Nest & Kin, we’re here to guide and support families through all these special milestones — from newborn days to confident toddlers.
📩 tamara@nestkin.co.uk
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